August 14, 2007
결혼
'결론부터'
'하겠다' 말고 '했다'
위의 원칙을 지키려 노력하는 사람으로써.
확정되지 않은 문제를 주위에 이야기하지않음을 기본으로 하지만.
'가족'에게는 있는그대로의 사실을 알려야(공유해야)한다는 그보다 상위되는 원칙을 가지고있다.
며칠전 가족들에게 그간의 오랜시간들에 대한 이유와,
앞으로 올 시간들 속에서 내가 가고자 하는 방향에 대해 말씀드릴 기회가 있었는데.
물론 그 가운데, '결혼'에 대한 이야기가 있었다.(두둥~ㅎㅎ)
아시다시피 여자들에게 '그다지' 인기가 없는 나로써는,
어떻게던 '그다지' 인기가 있는 수준으로 나 자신을 끌어올려 팔려보고싶다는,
이리보면 순수한 & 저리보면 그럴듯한 but 다시보면 말도안되는 변명거리가 항상 준비되어 있기에.
게다가 최근 눈먼 미스코리아,의사,아무개집안 딸등의
불가사의한 소개팅쇄도가 심심치않게 이어짐으로.
(참고로 난 '소개팅 따윈 안하는-운명을 믿어'주의다.)
어머니께 본론으로 들어가기전.
먼저 위와같은 사실을 열거하며,
'저 인기많아요. 그러니 맘만먹으면 암때나 갈 수 있어요'식의 설레발레를 치고 본론으로 들어갔다.
"...그래서. 지금부터 부지런히 누구만나서 내년 5-6월 쯤 식 올리고,
같이 XXX 가는것도 여러모로 모양새는 좋겠지만.
사실, 저는 XXX X년 끝나는 시점에서 하고 싶어요."
아...나는 이 시점에서.
"아들아, 빨리 장가가서 손자를 안겨다오" 나.
"XXX X년 끝나는 시점이면 니 나이가 몇인줄 아냐?" 라던지.
최악의 경우 "내년까지 장가안가면 XX지원은 없다"등의 '폭탄발언' 까지 염두해 두고 마음을 애써 가다듬고 있었는데.
엄니 왈.
"그래라"
(ㅎㅎ...ㅎㅎ...ㅎㅎ)^^;
어머니의 이 말씀과 다음날 나머지 가족들의 '너무나' 무난한 동의로.
이몸. 운신의 폭이 엄청 넓어졌음은 물론이요.
'이제 선보는 척이라도 해야되나?'라는 '쇼'의 부담에서 벋어나게 되었다.
아...그런데 이것 참 사람마음 묘한것이,
너무들 쉽게 내 의견에 전폭적인 지지를 보내주니.
순간, 아...이분들 혹시 내 나이를 잘못알고 계신것이 아닌가?- -;
혹은, 나를 장동건쯤으로 착각하고 있는 것은 아닐까?- -;;
또는, 호...그냥 선보고 내년에 확가서 다들 깜딱놀라게 해주는 것도 재밌겠는데?- -;;;
하는 뭐 이런 거시기한 생각도 순간 뇌리를 스치기도하였다.ㅎㅎ
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(잘 모르지만)
결혼은 그런 것 아니었나?
누군가를 만나고. 진정사랑하면. 하는것.
(주위를 둘러보니)
결혼을 위해 만나고. 진실되게 사랑하지않아도. 소위 '잘 사는 사람들도 있지만'
(혹은 나또한 그렇게 될지도 모르겠지만)
아무리 생각해도.
-그건 김씨가문에는 어울리지 않는 일이다.
Posted by Minsung at August 14, 2007 10:24 PM
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Comments
내년에 보여주실까 하는 깜짝쇼, 그럼 기대하고 있겠습니다.
Posted by: seanie at August 16, 2007 12:40 AM
까울 제수씨다~
Posted by: Anonymous at August 16, 2007 07:46 AM
왔? !!!!!!!!!!
아하~~ 이거였군여~ 발표하는겁니까?
Posted by: 구라 at August 17, 2007 12:38 PM
소설그만쓰고.
니 결혼준비에 매진하거라. 구라야.
-끝까지 '긴장의 끈'을 놓치말도록.ㅋㅋ
Posted by: kimminsung at August 17, 2007 06:47 PM